I’m all about independence and I am “team feminist.”
Regardless, sometimes a woman just needs to live in her femininity.
Once, I was at a church women’s conference and Steven Dixon (author of Men Don’t Heal, We Ho… funny title, but very witty book) referred to it as always showing a man your woman (as opposed to “you’re”…. I told you writer’s a witty guy). He was referring to owning your womanly presence.
Sometimes the best way to love him is by putting on a cute dress, spraying on a bit of your special occasion perfume and being dainty.