Tagged: Men

#61. Love intentionally.

In everything you do, your intention should be to give love.

In every word spoken…

In every action taken…

Intentionally love him.


#53. Give up a little closet space.

Wall Closet

Wall Closet (Photo credit: Wikipedia)


I’m embarrassed to say.  Without even realizing it, I’d put my guy completely out of my closet.  I don’t think it was a huge deal to him, but being willing to make a little closet space for him is a tell-tell sign that I love him.



#33. Cater to him.

Emotion (Samantha Sang song)

Emotion (Samantha Sang song) (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Yesterday I was all set to nag the hell out of my “him” over a something small. When I called him, he’d just gotten off work and I could hear in his voice that he was tired.  So I took a note from my girls (Beyonce, Kelly and Michelle) and started cooking him some dinner and making sure home was nice and neat for him.

By the time I was done cooking, the thing I was planning on fussing out wasn’t even a big deal.

Sometimes you’ve got to put things on hold and give him loving attention.

#32. Wear something off the shoulder.

Purple off-shoulder dress - ck Calvin Klein

Purple off-shoulder dress – ck Calvin Klein 

I don’t know what it is, but a little shoulder action tends to do something for men.  Regardless of if it’s a cute blouse or dress or an oversized, slouchy t-shirt, fellas love it and since “off-the-shoulder” probably isn’t your everyday attire, he’ll know you’re doing it for him.  

And don’t be afraid of a little cleavage.  I know it’s cliche, but a little cleavage never hurt anyone:)

#28. Sing and dance to cheesy songs.

Sometimes when you’re in a rut, you’ve just got to rock out to a really fun song.  Lucky for us, the radio plays tons of them.  Take your pick and have at it.

Check out this video:

Couple Covers Thrift Shop to Celebrate their Proposal

#27. Travel together… anywhere.


Photo credit: Wikipedia

The first time traveling together is sometimes a make or break deal.  You can learn a lot from a person during a weekend road trip.

If you love him, you’ve probably already conquered this task.  Sometimes we get caught up in taking expensive trips.  Don’t get me wrong, there’s nothing but goodness that comes from the vacation of your dreams, but sometimes that’s just not practical.  All is not lost.

Get in your car and take a day trip to some small town.  Hop on the bus and visit a nearby city.  Be a tourist in your own city.  Get a hotel room and let someone else clean up your mess.  Big or small, traveling together helps you spread the love.